Anyway, this is her recipe. My wife wanted this cake for her Birthday last week and I was more than happy to oblige her.
Ingredients
2 1/2 cups all purpose flour
1 1/2 cups sugar
1 teas baking soda
1 teas salt
1 teas cocoa powder
1 1/2 cups vegetable oil
1 cup butter milk
2 large eggs
2 Tbls red food coloring
1 teas distilled white vinegar
1 teas vanilla extract
chopped pecans for top
Cream Cheese Frosting
1 pound of cream cheese
4 cups sifted powdered sugar
2 sticks unsalted butter
1 teas vanilla extract
PRO TIP: Turn the mixer off BEFORE you lick the beaters.
Pour the batter in the three pans and bake for about 30 minutes. Just use a tooth pick or something to check it. When the cake are done, take them out of the pans and let them cool.
This is what the cakes look like if you forget the baking soda; about 1/2 inch thick. Still somewhat edible, but I had to start all over.
To make the frosting:
Mix the cream cheese, powdered sugar, and butter on medium speed until they are smooth. Add the vanilla and make sure it's mixed well.Frost the cakes like you normally would. I just add pecans to the top, but you can go all the way around the cake if you're feeling feisty.